Wellness: One week detox using Green Tea (what to look for and to expect)

Hello Darlings, this week I am saying my one week detox using Green Tea. In this post I will share what to look out for when purchasing a suitable green tea for detox and what to expect during the detox process.
Last week as promised I said I will be trying various methods of detox to find out which would be more suitable for me.
First off Green Tea is a tea usually made from herbs.

 

I decided to go on a green tea detox because green tea have proven to have various healing and health benefits. However, there are a variety of green tea out there in the market so how do you know which green tea will help Detoxifying your system.
A variety of herbs with detoxification properties have to be blend together for you to achieve the right results. Here are a list of herbs to look out for when purchasing a suitable green tea for Detoxing.

  • Dandelion
  • Ginger
  • Red Clover
  • Garlic
  • Stinging Nettle
  • Burdock Root
  • Cilantro
  • Ground Ivy
  • Milk Thistle …. Etc.

The green tea brand I took was  a mix of Legend and Sabirna Ginger and Garlic Tea because I am legend lol. I drank it judiciously for a whole week. Here are my journal entries for the 7days
Day 1: I drank the legend green tea and the taste was so bitter I don’t Know how I swallowed it. I felt quiet normal for the whole day and surprisingly energized.
Day 2: I found a way to make my reading taste better. I added slices of apples which made the tea taste way better. My energy levels are up and I have been peeing a lot.
Day 3: Getting used the taste energy levels up. I am doing a lot and sweating well.
Day 4: Tea taste normal to me right about now. Spent the whole day in the sun and I didn’t feel as exhausted as I usually do.
Day 5: Taste same as yesterday and energy levels same as yesterday. I spent hours taking product shoots and editing pictures without exhaustion.
Day 6: Same as yesterday with reduced peeing
Day 7: Energy level still high and feeling lighter. Peeing reduced feeling great!
That was my 1 week journal entry in summary I felt very light and energized. Also my appetite for junk reduced considerably. I used the toilet a lot doing the number one and of course the number 2. Physically I noticed some reduction in my bloating which made me really happy. I wasn’t working out just going about my daily activities and it really felt great. I think I will do this detox for one more week before switching. I made my tea strong you can make yours lighter especially if you are going to be working or attending class. You may want to start during the weekend just in case your body decided to flush out all the toxins all at once. You will be ready. So why not Netflix and Detox. Have a great week. Love D.A

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Book Review and Personal Take :#GirlBoss by Sophia Amoruso

#Girl Boss was written by Sophia Amoruso a prominent business woman CEO of clothing brand Nasty Gal.

Screenshot_20180714-170837I know they are a lot of rags to riches stories out there right now especially on social media but this isn’t like any of those. Sophia Amoruso in this book talked about her journey from broke to finding a passion which she stuck with until it became a multimillion dollar fashion business. In the book the author spoke about her childhood, her teenage years, failed experiences and how she had to pick herself up every time she failed. I have read this book over and over again and I recognized some characteristics in Sophia which I wish to share with you my lovely readers today.

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Before we jump into any of that you should know this book isn’t for females  alone (even if it says #GirlBoss) any  male learn a thing or two about becoming a boss from this book. Also you don’t have to be a CEO to become a #Girlboss because being a girl boss is more about our attitude towards our lives and how we see ourselves as individuals which goes way beyond being rich or a business owner.

My personal take and lessons I have learnt from Sophia Amoruso in this book.

• Be true to yourself: being true to yourself is the ultimate first step to becoming a #GirlBoss. Answer the questions who am I? What do I do that people go wow? What are my strengths and weaknesses? What do I wabw to achieve in life.

Truthfully answer these questions and you are one step ahead on becoming a girl boss. Through out the book the author was very real with her audience and that shows she is a 100% true to herself.
• Find your passion: a passion is the thing that gets you up in the morning out in the cold or sun doing what you love. Search within yourself and find that which sets your soul ablaze. It could be blogging, making dresses, taking care of people, singing, taking photographs etc. Find it girlfriend!
• Set goals and don’t be scared to be ambitious: stop commenting goals on Instagram and set actual goals for yourself according to your dreams. Be ambitious in your business, career, education and do not be scared to be a big dreamer, Sophia wasn’t you shouldn’t either. A #girlboss takes her life seriously that is why she sets goals for herself.
• Be bold in pursuing your Goals: a #Girlboss is BOLD she purses her goals without fear because she knows fear just hinders you from attaining your true potential. There are no rules to becoming a #GirlBoss so don’t e scared to break a few rules. It’s your life your risks so as I always say Chest it babe😉 don’t be afraid of competition if abytanyt welcome it wholeheartedly.
• Recognize an opportunity: opportunities come sometimes once in a lifetime so when you see a great opportunity don’t let fear take over your better judgement. Remember nothing substantial grows in your comfort zone. So go out and source for that business opportunity, that promotion, those extra credit you can slay them because you are a Boss.
• Forget the naysayers: we are always going to have people in our lives that will belittle or dreams and discourage us. Ever heard the phrase first they criticize then they copy? Yes that’s basic human nature. When going at your goals and you have naysayers saying this and that, well ignore them no matter how close they are to your heart. Trust me when I say this a GirlBoss knows at the end of the day it’s her life and she will do everything to make her dreams come true. She will work harder, read longer, invest more agressively take more risks as long as they align with her passion and her passion is her happiness. It doesn’t matter what they think what do you think? Is this going to be a success do your homework don’t jump blindly into anything be it business, relationship or even friendship. Instead locate your tribe of creatives and innovators these people will be your audience and your supporters.
• A GirlBoss is wise with her money: a girl boss is wise with her money. She works hard for it so she spends it wisely. She isn’t loose with her cash and makes wise decisions.
I have always wanted to be a #Girlboss because to me being a GirlBoss is knowing who I am and taking pride in that.

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Being a #GirlBoss is being in charge and taking conscious efforts to live a better and more meaningful life. Trust me it’s a process sometimes I am weak and I feel like I can’t do it even if I haven’t even scratched the surface of my abilities and ambitions. Some day I will get to the position where I can give advice to younger girls and guys on how to be a Boss but for now I am enjoying the process and reading great books that help propel me to do more such as this.
I am leaving you with three pieces of advice straight from Sophia Amoruso
“ I want you to
remember: Don’t ever grow
up. Don’t become a bore.
Don’t ever let the Man get to you.” -Sophia Amoruso.

Have a wonderful week loves. You can find this book on Amazon or any other online store for about $13 which I think is steal for the wealth of knowledge in this book. You definitely should check it out. Have you read this book or any book similar to this? Share your thoughts on this posts and the moves you are currently making to become a #GirlBoss or #Boss.

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Don’t forget to smile.

Love D.A

My Eko tales: Sunset in Epe Fish market

The Epe fish market is Located in a small town of Epe in the outskirts of Lagos. I went visiting some time back during my stay at the luxurious Epe Resorts and Spa.

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I was told Epe in the ancient Yoruba Language (a dialect of the Yoruba people of Western Nigeria) mean Fish. The Epe people were and still are fishermen and fish traders. Before my visit, I read about the fish market online and I was interested in going to see for myself what it was like so I went with my Twinnie. Remember her?

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It was the perfect evening for an adventure so we embarked on one.

The fish market is by the bank of a river the fish market. The fishermen catch the fish and bring them straight from the boat into the market.

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The women in the fish market buy the fish directly from the boats of the fishermen. The boats are wooden and usually of a variety of sizes.

My sister and I went around the fish market although I expected it to be bigger, it wasn’t as big as I expected but it was big enough for the women to trade comfortably.

The traders spoke mainly Yoruba and I barely understand the language so for an outsider or tourist this could possibly as some sort of trade barrier. To ease this get someone who can understand the language fluently who can act as translator and negotiator.

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A lady gave us a short tour of the market and I noticed some women at the market sold other things other than  fish which was great, I mean we can’t all eat fish right?

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However we saw about 8 to 10 species of fish, of different colors and sizes. Some of the women didn’tlikethe idea of me snapping their fish but I took some random pictures.

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My favorite part of the market is the bank of the river the view is absolutely beautiful and so is the sunset. There are greens, palms and water as far as the eyes can see.

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The Epe Fish market was worth my time and I ended up buying some roasted corn which I could barely eat because it was so strong. I guess that happened because it wasn’t corn season yet.

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Regrets:  I  really wished I bought some fish but I couldn’t.

Joy: We stayed around and enjoyed the sight of the beautiful sunset.

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Tips for visiting the fish market

1. Have an open mind because fish smells so does the market

2. If you speak Yoruba then you shouldn’t have a problem

3. If you are buying don’t be scared to bargain

4. Don’t wear white you might get stains.

5. Make sure to enjoy the view and tip the woman that takes you around the market.

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The Epe fish market was fun and definitely worth my time. I was happy I paid a visit. Have you ever been to a fish market before? Will you like to visit one?I will be waiting for your comments. Share your experiences.

I am currently out of  Lagos for a few months, I will be exploring other cities seeking adventures wherever I can.Till next time Love D.A

 

Life: Bye June Hello July (June Favorites and July Series)

Hello Darlings, it is the last day of the month and also my mum’s special day. I am so grateful for another year celebrating my amazing mother and I am so happy a new month begins tomorrow.
June Review

 

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For me June marked a rollercoaster of emotions. This month I felt like giving up and not getting out of bed alot but I kept going. The news I read on the internet about the happenings around me got me thinking about life and the quality of life. Just as my theme for the month said I chose gratitude over self pity and harnessing the power of Gratitude worked wonders for me this month.7 I always felt happiness which is a beautiful feeling. I realized the fact that we are still alive means God has an amazing plan for us and I can’t wait to see what he has in store. I decided to lend my voice in talking about the issues that affect me and my country by sensitising the public to get involved in speaking up for the truth. Since I made that decision I have learnt a lot about my country and people. For that I am grateful for the opportunity to do whatever I can to help. I have alot to be grateful for and I have been listing there things out daily.
Hello July

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July is here and I know it’s going to be amazing. For July I have decided to focus on physical and mental wellness because I have come to realize that the mind is a powerful tool and a strong body enhances a strong mind. Since the beginning of the year I have read a lot of books of great substance and in the month of July every week I will share one book I read and review it here for you all to read. Also focusing on wellness of the body I will be taking on detox and rejuvenation so therefore today marks my last cheat day for the next few weeks. I have read that having a healthier lifestyle leads to a happier life so let’s test that theory shall we? Also I get to go home for the summer holidays after 5 months of being away from home, I get to focus on me, writing more and creating more photo and I may dabble in creating video content let’s see how that goes. Can’t wait to try so many new things and discover new places and people.

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Happy July loves many blessings this month. If you would like me to share details of my detox here on the blog say so in the comments section I will love to take you on this with me. Enjoy July and do something awesome each day this month. 

Love D.A

Fashion 101: Tips for Dressing Different Body Types (Part 2: Men)

Hi everyone, thanks for the views of my last post still on the topic of different body types I shall be focusing on the males today. Yes male readers this one is specially for you. Now guys you must be wondering do men have different body types like women do? The answer is Yes, Yes, Yes men have many different body shapes and types just like women.

The guys will have to agree with me that in the past some clothes you must have purchased did not sit right one your body some may have looked strange or weird and some outfits you probably bought may have been as a result of lack of knowledge of body types and how to dress them. I shall be giving out tips and tricks on how to dress according to your body type as not only women have problems picking with dressing their body types or shapes.

Dressing Different Male Body Types

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Most males fall into one of the below body types:
The Rhomboid/ Trapezoid Male: broad shoulders and chest with narrow hips and waist. The upper and lower body are balanced therefore this body type is relatively easy to dress as most styles suit him.

Boldpatterns, prints, bold colors, and blazers, bumper Jackets, shirts, well-tailored trousers, skinny jeans all look good on the Rhomboid male.
The Inverted Triangle Male: broad shoulders and chest with narrower hips and waist, the upper body is wider than the lower body therefore there is an imbalance. The main aim in dressing this body type is to add bulk to the midriff and lower body to balance out this body structure.

Belts help break up the outfit and draws attention to the hips, striped tees around the stomach rather than the  the stomach rather than the chest, V-neck shirts, polo shirts, double breasted jackets, horizontal stripes and jumpers draw the eye downwards drawing attention away from the chest. Straight legged trousers and jeans work for this body type paired with patterned footwear.
The Rectangle Male: shoulder is roughly the same width as their waist and hips the illusion of structure is to be created in dressing this body type.

Prints, color pops, structured tailoring such as blazers and jackets tailored to emphasize your waist, horizontal stripes across upper body should be incorporated in the wardrobe of the Rectangle Male, avoid double breasted jackets try single breasted with structured shoulders. Also jumpers fitted at the waist can be used to widen the chest and circular necklines help draw attention to the upper torso.

The Triangle Male: shoulders and chest are narrower than the waist and hips, the lower body appears larger and also creates the appearance of sloping shoulders, there is an imbalance. Wear single breasted pieces, structured blazers and button down styles when dressing the upper body, clothes should be well fitted. Darker colors should be worn on the upper body and layering is advisable. Avoid horizontal stripes across the stomach they will make the upper body look larger, vertical stripes are a better option, avoid polo shirts and skinny or heavily tailored trousers

The Oval Male: shape appears round especially around the midriff, shoulders are narrower. Wear vertical stripes to lengthen the body and make the shoulders appear wider to redefine the body giving the much needed structure. Opt for detailed prints, fitted trousers, and dark colors.

Ensure the trouser length and sleeves are the right length as gathering make you appear shorter. Avoid horizontal stripes, polo shirts, double breasted jackets.

This post was special for the men who read my blog and the ladies who style the ma. I hope this post is helpful to you and your fashion needs.

Have a splendid day. Love D.A

Life: The relationship between Gratitude and living your best life.

From the last time on Gratitude I spoke about the magic of Gratitude, today I am talking about the relationship between Gratitude and living your best life. There are many benefits to harnessing  a mindset of gratitude but there is a direct relationship between Gratitude and living your best life simply because when you are always grateful for the good in your life your mind automatically focuses on the good aspects of your life and the result of this is that you pay little or no attention to the bad which is awesome.

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Life is full of trials and challenges alot of things will hit you and test you but having a positive attitude in the face of these trials gives you the ability to tackle these challenges without negativity. Gratitude helps you focus on these good things.

Live intentionally and remember that you can and you will only if you put your heart and soul into it. Living your Best doesn’t mean you have a perfect life, it just means that you are ready to ride the waves and love yourself no matter what. Having a mindset of Gratitude sets you apart and shows the gap from where you were, where you are and where you are definitely going to be if you keep at it. Be grateful for the process.

The universe gives you what you put in sending in positive energy attracts positivity to you. The law of attraction mind translates into thought and thought into reality.

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What are you Grateful for? There are ways to live intentionally and graciously, one way is by keeping records mentally and physically of the good things in your life. That is my ultimate hack of living everyday actively in gratitude. And as a gift I have made a little cheat sheet for you my amazing readers.

Your Gratitude Cheat Sheet

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  • Every morning list things you are grateful for
  • Every night before you sleep take a mental picture of your day and pick out things you are grateful for. Trust me even in the shittest of shitty days there is always something or someone to be grateful for
  • Write a list of people you are grateful for, people who make your laugh, relationships that are about love and light.

This cheat sheet helps you focus your energy on the positive things and people in your life. When you focus more on your positive relationships the negatives do not have any place in your life. Your happiness level increase, you feel better within yourself, your spirit free and you attract the good things in life. You are your best self. That is the definition of living your best life.

I am grateful for you my amazing reader, for your time, likes and shares. I am grateful for life and God’s awesome favor and love. What are you grateful for today?

Something to take into the new week. Love D.A😘

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Fashion 101: Tips for Dressing all body types (Part 1: Ladies)

Hello darlings, fashion is the topic today and you will be reading tips for Dressing all body types. I am taking everyone back to the basics Fashion 101. Are you excited? Let’s jump right in!#29 Quote

There is a wide range of beautiful body types out there and each unique body type has different things to look out for when  picking out glam fits. Now you may be wondering this is another article to limit my style or cramp my swag. Hell No! Excuse my French. Fashion is clothes but style is an expression of fashion. Everyone’s expression is different and you should be able to wear anything you like.

Truth be told we all want to look good I mean after spending all that time picking out an outfit and after the dreams of how we are gonna slay them in that outfit, there is this feeling you get when the outfit isn’t looking the way you imagined it I know now it feels. Have you ever been in a situation where you have dreamt up your outfit, you have planned how fly you will look in it and how you are going to love it but at the end of the day all you do is look frumpy, ill fitted or weird in that outfit? And you are left thinking “it looked so good in the magazine, on television or my personal favorite on instagram, why does it look this way on me?” sometimes we don’t take our body shapes into consideration when buying clothes I mean we all make those mistakes and sometimes that’s the reason the dress looked fly on instagram and made you look like a sack of potatoes.

I’m giving you some tips on how to dress up your body type in a way that highlights your best most complimenting assets. Time to flaunt your God given assets.

Different female body types.

Most women fall into four categories
*Circle –thick around the middle
*Triangle- larger at the bottom
*Hourglass- curvy but evenly
*Rectangle-straight up and down

We also have the Diamond shaped and Inverted triangle.

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The beautiful Circle- she is one who is bigger around her midriff (waist and belly region) her best features or selling point are her slender legs, slight shoulders and trim booty.

 

When choosing clothes blazers often compliment this body type, wrap dresses, asymmetrical hemlines also does wonders for this body type. Women with this body type often tend to cover up completely but that is a wrong way to dress your beautiful circle, you have great legs flaunt those, dresses with gathering hides the stomach thereby creating the hourglass effect. Since her body is soft and round her goal when picking out tops should be to buy tops that add structure like blazers and structured jackets. When picking out fabrics prints and patters look great on this body type especially on their upper body region, large floral, weighty fabrics like wool or heavy cotton, geometric prints tend to flatter the circle woman more there by adding the much needed structure

The Beautiful Triangle – she has shapely legs, a trim waist, shapely hips and her upper body is slender.

 

See Post: The fashion piece you should have in your wardrobe

Balance is the key to dressing this body type, the idea of wearing tight shirts makes your bottom look bigger than it is, this why some females complain they look ‘fat in them jeans’ it’s all about the balance, when choosing tops think layers wide scoop necks, one shoulder tops, cardigans,cropped jacket are great choices for the beautiful triangle. Boot cut pants worn with heels look great on this body type, also A-line cut skirts and dresses are great as they show off your tiny waist avoid high waist and pleated skirts but incorporated bright clours, chunky jewery, prints and patterns are also advisable but in darker colors for the lower body.

The Beautiful Hourglass- she has full breasts, a slim waist and curvy hips, this is usually the figure everyone looks up to and tries to mimic.

 

When dressing this body type keeping it clean and simple is the key avoid layers, and belts help show off your tiny waist and small belly. Fitted jackets, flare skirts, skirts that stop at or below the knee usually pencil skirts, as well as boot leg pants and skinny jeans all look good on this body type. Fitted and not tight skirts and pants are the idle way to pick out pants and skirts for the hourglass

The Beautiful Rectangle- she is slender with an athlectic figure this makes her often look boxy this often discourages women with the rectangle body types because they have the notion that clothes don’t look good on them because they do not have hips or are ruler shaped, but this is actually one of the best body shapes to dress.

 

Lace, silk and draping fabrics Avoid structured tops opt for tops with ruffle details, asymmentrical or rounded hemlines, wrap dresses and skirts are great, tank tops with thin deicate straps paired with high waisted pants are a great way to go also a pair of boyfriend jeans look good on the beautiful triangle.

The Beautiful inverted triangle- she has bigger under body and smaller lower body, her best features are her killer long legs and trim waist but dressing this body type can be tricky.

 

opt for deep V-necklines and cowl necks to help make the upper body appear smaller, avoid ruffles as they will make your upper body look even bigger, gently draped tops are a good choice,wide legged pants, long skirts that make your lower body look bigger are good choices, keep jewelery at minimum on your upper body, choose bright colours and prints for your lower body and stick to dark solid colours on your upper body to balance out figure.

Those are today’s tips leave a comment on how you dress your body type and I hope this post was helpful. Don’t forget to like and share with friends! 

Have a lovely day ahead. Love D.A

Life: The Magic of Gratitude

Hi Darlings, first off I want to say I am so grateful that you are reading this post. It’s June the month of Gratitude and today we will be discussing the Magic of Gratitude.

Gratitude like I said in my previous post means  being grateful or being thankful. I checked the dictionary and got this definition:

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From the Above definition I picked out three major points:

  • Being in “Quality of being thankful”
  • Readiness in “readiness to show appreciation”
  • Return in “to return kindness”

So gratitude is simply not something you do it is “being” a second nature.  Hence, gratitude isn’t just an action of appreciation, it is a nature of appreciation which makes it a part of you. Readiness or to be ready means preparing for immediate action, when something is part of you you are always prepared to do it because it comes naturally to you ( second nature of gratitude) so you are always in a state of graciousness and thankfulness. Return means to reciprocate or give back and you can never give back what you don’t have. When you are grateful you can easily give back positive energy.

How to harness the Magic that is Gratitude.

Personally, harnessing gratitude is more  an experience, a lifestyle than just an attitude. Experiencing Gratitude rather than just acting grateful is allowing the act of gratitude sink in and since we are influenced to act our actions can influence us also. How do you feel when you say thank you? Think about it. Everytime you say thank you or appreciate someone, you become open internally it’s like your soul breathes. According to a blog I read “Feeling grateful is an internal experience of fullness and expansion in the heart, an expansion that spontaneously arises from the recognition of love, of goodness, and of grace.”- Consciouslifestylemag

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For me the easiest way to harness gratitude is to challenge myself to live each day thankfully. You can do this by waking up everyday and being thankful for the gift of life. This sets the day up for positivity.

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Say thank you your doorman when he opens the door for you and mean it, why? He is doing a good job, thank your cab man even if you paid him he still deserves thanks for his service, your mother, husband, wife, sister, friend for breakfast or that thing they must have done for you why? They put their time and effort into it, thank your co-workers, for the little things and mean it. So the first part was thanking but now you have to understand why it is important to do these things, doing these create good and positive vibes. Positive vibes attract positive things to you all day long.  There is always something to be grateful for even the little things like beating traffic to work, getting a call from an old friend, finding your blend of coffee, getting plantains to fry. There is an array of things to be grateful for to feel the magic of gratitude in form of positivity. What are you grateful for?

Today I am grateful for life first off and the yummy pancakes I just had. Also for the insightful conversations I share with friends especially the one I am having right now about schooling and further studies with my sis Inem.

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Something to take into the new week. Have a lovely day and week ahead.

 

Life: Hello June! + New Series

Hello June! Happy New month Darlings!!

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On the blog , the month of May was dedicated to Depression and mental health care. I received some messages about the articles I put up on here about this issue and I am really happy for the feedback.

So how was your month of May because mine had alot of activities plus school work. I took out time to balance myself and study for my exams which were fast approaching.

I  major highlight was meeting new people at the Ace Awards ceremony and getting to know more people and their stories via social media.

Athough I haven’t exhausted the topics on Depression and mental health, I will starting a new series on Gratitude for the mother of June.

Why Gratitude and what is gratitude?

Gratitude simply means appreciation, thankfulness, being grateful. When you are grateful you have realised there is something worthwhile within you that you have to be thankful for. This helps us in more ways than we realise.

For the next 21 day we will be talking Gratitude and saying why we are grateful and what we are grateful for.

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So for Today, I am Grateful for life, I finally finished my exams they were challenging but they were good. I have faith in God and I believe he got me. Now I can share a glass of wine with friends and live a little.

How was May for you? What are yu looking forward to in June? How are you spending the weekend? And What are you grateful for?

share with me amd have a lovely weekend. Love D.A xo.

 

Life: 7 ways to Deal with Depression

Still on my theme for May if you have been following, today I am talking about 7 ways to Deal with Depression.

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From my last post 7 Signs of Depression, you must have been able to identify the signs of Depression and we can all agree that depression is a shitty state of mind that we will love to avoid.

There are  7 ways to deal with depression.

Dealing with Depression is not easy and although the ways stated below may not work for everyone but they are worth trying because there are different stages of depression and it vary from one person to another.

  • Mind over Matter: Give yourself a break. You are not perfect. No one is, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by our minds and what others think of us. We shouldn’t however it negativity define us and always remember you are the solution not the problem.
  • Cry if you need to: sometimes all you need is a good cry to let out all pent up emotions. Keeping up the fake smile while you hurt inside isn’t good for you or anyone. So when overwhelmed and you feel like crying just let those tears flow trust me you will feel better after a good cry.

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  • Time out: sometimes you may be so in your own head that you get really confused. You may need a time out to get yourself back you may need to withdraw from social life a bit to get back to being awesome again.
  • Practice Self love and positive thoughts: there is no love greater than self love. Loving yourself is a big step in dealing with depression. Positive thoughts help brighten your day and your life. Tell yourself everyday “I am beautiful” “I am Awesome” “I am Loved” “Yes I Can” helps alot.
  • Journal and Exercise: writing has helped me in my darkest days. I find myself feeling better after penning down my thoughts, just like crying help some people journaling their thoughts help others. Exercising help release energy and tension focusing on an activity or a task for a while helps take your mind off negative thoughts and the release help you feel better.
  • Seek Help: there is no shame in asking for help. There are alot of people are willing to help you. Seek the advice of counsellors, spiritual father’s and mental health professionals such as phycologists. Yes you can afford it because there are alot of free services you can find and some of these services are even on social media. So seek help.
  • Never Forget the unconditional love of Christ: Jesus loves you, died for you and knows you are worth it. Even if you think everyone has abandoned you, he never did. You may be going through alot now and may feel unworthy but you are loved and you are WORTH EVERYTHING.

So guys no matter how Screenshot_20180517-182108far gone and how badly you feel, you are not alone and death isn’t the answer because your life is worth so much more than you think. Always remember you will be better and this too shall pass.

I really hope this post is helpful to someone out there. If you know other ways that can help in dealing with Depression kindly enlighten me and the readers. I will be in the comment section learning from your contributions.

Until next time Keep shining.

Love D.A😘

Skincare: The Glow-Up Beauty Black Soap Review + Giveaway

Today on beauty I will be sharing my review on the GlowUp Herbal Soap an all natural beauty product I have been using for  little over a month now.

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First off, my first experience using black soap was when I used the DuDu-Osun black soap I heard alot of great things so I wanted to really try it out for myself. Screenshot_20180511-212245I was super excited bought mine and used it for a month. After a while I noticed some dark patches on my skin  realized that it really burnt me. I stopped using  it and swore off black soap (for a while). Months later I was tempted by the tresbodyorganices black soap and fell in love with the African black soap again.

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A month ago I started using the   Glow Up Herbal Soap.

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I have been loving the experience so far. In this post I am sharing some things I noticed and liked about  the soap below:

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  • Packaging: it came in a black plastic bottle which I really liked. Packaging is simple and durable. So if you are clumsy like me you will like this bottle.
  • Texture: the texture of the soap is smooth although  light I would have liked it if it was thicker but that’s just because I like my soap creamy.

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  • Smell: the smell really stood out for me. I didn’t have that regular black soap smell. It had a nice fragrance and I really liked foaming it.
  • Self life: I have been using it for a month now and the self life has been good so far.

In Conclusion:

I really liked the product especially how it felt on my skin. One of my favorite things to do with this soap is washing my face after a long day It leaves my face CLEAN and it is an amazing feeling considering the dust and sweat and debris I know had accumulated within my pores  for hours before the wash. II recomme this soap because it’s been great on my skin so far. Also I am giving one of my regular blog readers living in Lagos the opportunity to try out this product for him/herself and tell me what they think about the product. To enter this giveaway you will have to be ACTIVE on my blog, also SUBSCRIBED to my blog and also following  me @deeawata and @glowbeautyandcosmetics on INSTAGRAM!

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I hope you enjoyed this post I am open to trying out more natural beauty products especially black soaps and masks so if you have any you really like recommend them in the comments below. Thank you.

Goodluck to everyone entering for the Giveaway. Have a lovely day ahead. Love D.A😘

 

Life: 7 Signs of Depression

Depression is a serious mood disorder. It affects how you think, act and respond to situations.

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Depression amongst youths, teenagers and adults are more common than we care to admit. Infact a good percentage of the world’s population is suffering from depression.

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7 Signs of Depression.

We may often ask ourselves how do we know we are depressed? Or how do we recognize depression in someone else. Well there are certain ways depression can be recognized. Some of these are:

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  • Feeling Helpless or Hopeless which leaves the person weak causing the person to sleep alot or barely sleep.
  • Sadness, guilt and a constant feeling of worthlessness
  • Change in eating or sleeping habit which may lead to weight gain or loss.
  • Difficulty concentrating or making a decision concerning important stuff.
  • Loss of interest in social activities or things once enjoyed. Always want to be in a dark room locked up.
  • Feeling of restlessness ad constant uneasiness.
  • Thoughts of self harm or suicide. Resulting to taking harmful substances that could cause extensive damage or even death.

From the above Signs you will notice that there are alot of people walking the streets depressed. You may also recognize someone these traits in you why? because a good majority of  people are a little depressed. The first step to any recovery process is acceptance. Although this checklist is by no way a diagnosis however, If you checked off at least 5 out of the 7 stated above then my advice is you definitely have a problem and that’s something to accept and we can start working on how to get better.

Use this new week to evaluate your mental state. Have a great day and week ahead. Love D.A

 

Hello May! Mental health and Depression awareness.

Happy new month lovelies, I have decided this month will be dedicated Mental health and Depression awareness because this is a real issue and should be discussed.

The last few months have been hectic and stressful and I have felt overwhelmed and sad, angry and disappointed, whole lot of emotions. The great thing is I found a way to cope and go day after day telling myself “tomorrow is going to be better” but not everyone knows how to tackle this feeling of despair and sadness.

Mental health and depression awareness should be talked about everyday because there are so many people suffering in our world today.

I read online about the sucide of one of my favorite artists Avicii may his soul rest in perfect peace and I was really touched and disturbed about how a 20something year old with a successful career and a fan base that loves him will think life isn’t worth living anymore.

It shows how deep our mind could go and it’s power over our actions. Alot of cases of people you least expect attempting to take their lives shows that so many people are battling daily emotional and mental issues and they pretty it up with makeup, a smile and we think everything is find when it isn’t.

I used to believe the “keep up with those that keep up with you” adage until I realised sometimes some people aren’t checking on you or communicating with you because they are drowning in themselves and need help.

As we enter the month of May please if you are one of those people feeling drowned within yourself, feeling perpetually sad and angry at the world, if you have thought of taking your own life please DO NOT! You are worth something. You are worth a whole lot. This is not the end, God has a plan for you and God loves you.

In this month starting from today please spread love and not hate, positivity rather than negativity, check on your friends, your family check on them and let them know you love them. You never know what someone is going through.

Spread light and love. Take care of yourself and your being. Guard your heart and spread the love.

Happy new month loves, Love D.A 💋

My Eko Tales: The Ace Awards Conference and Exhibition.

Yesterday, I attended the Ace Awards Exhibition and Conference powered by Bellafricana at Victoria Island, Lagos State Nigeria.

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The aim of the Ace Awards Exhibition and Conference is to celebrate creativity and innovation in Africa.

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The conference as well as the exhibition was an eye opener for me as I saw a different side of Africa and Nigeria I always suspected existed but never saw for myself until now. There where serval brands each with their on unique innovations that made them stand out.

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My highlight of the day was the Conference which was very educative the speakers gave alot of insight on how business in Africa works.

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I have decided to share a few things I learnt from the formidable speakers yesterday about building and sustaining a Small or Meduim size indigenous enterprise:

  • Structuring your business is key to success.
  • Define your audience, know them and understand them, that helps you in creating the products that will be relevant to your audience thereby increasing your sales.
  • In Digital Marketing one of the most useful tips is consistency on you social media platforms. If keeping up may be difficult then it will be best to pick one social media platform to be consistent on.

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  • In social media marketing it’s important to know your hastags.
  • The children of today should be trained to have entrepreneurial  mindsets to have different skill sets which can be very useful to you.
  • Trademarks, Patents and so on ate put in place to help protect your trade secrets.
  • Export is possible for small and medium size Enterprises and there are alot of channels open for small and medium size entrepreneurs.
  • Business owners shouldn’t be mentally lazy, they should always be open to learning opportunities.

20180429_134355.jpgThe exhibition had alot of brands participating both indoors andaoutdoors it waz really amazing and I had the opportunity to interact with business owners such as Wura of WuraNaturals the owner of a skincare and haircare brand (IG: WuraNaturals), IMG_20180428_141742-01the owner of Semsey Skin solutions who was so kind to give a class on soap making which was very interesting, lovely handmade jewellery from @isurajewelry, Lara Rose constom made cards which is a luxury stationary company ,Ankara pieces from Afrikoncept

I really enjoyed the Ace Awards Exhibition and Conference and  would love to partner with them next year and this time in a more participating capacity maybe as a speaker or exhibitor who knows!

This event was awesome for my first ever exhibition and I am glad I attended and got to give away tickets to other entrepreneurs in the making like myself on my Instagram (yes there was a giveaway ad two lucky winersw emerged if you missed that you should definitely follow me on Instagram ( Click Here ) so as to not miss out next time.

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It’s another week and I wish you the very best this week. Slay your goals and do your best to be Happy ad fulfilled. Have a lovely week ahead. Love D.A

Beauty and Skincare: How stress affects your skin and 5 ways to remedy that!

Hello lovelies, how has your week been going so far? Today on the blog I will be discussing How stress affects your skin and five ways to remedy the effects.

I was looking at the mirror sometime back and I noticed alot of discoloration on my skin coupled with some rashes and for the life of me I didn’t know how they got there.

I have been so busy lately with my project and school work that I have completely abandoned taking care of my skin. For a student in her finals stress is my middle and surname and I only just noticed recently that it has been affecting my skin so badly and I want to change that.

So many of us are stressed from work, school, home the society we are very stressed which is never a good thing. Stress affects your skin it causes acne, discoloration, uneveness and so on. I have been on and on about ways to remedy these effects of stress on the skin and below I have listed 5 of them.

5 ways to remedy it:

  1. Sleep: lack of sleep affects your skin. When I am up all night on my computer analysing financial statements. I am stressed and irritable and this shows on my skin especially around my eyes. There is nothing cute about red eyes and scratches on my skin from itching which shows as a swelling the next morning. If this is your case the best remedy is SLEEP. So find some time no matter how little to grab yourself some sleep even if its more like a nap. Also if you wake up in the morning with puffy eyes you can remedy this by holding the back of a cold spoon up your under eye and massage from inner to outer areas of your eyes you should feel better in no time. Make sure the spoon isn’t too cold and if you don’t have a fridge like me you can buy cold water soak it in a towel and place it on your eye lids for a few minutes.
  2. Hydrate: often when I am stressed I forget to drink water, because I am too “focused” on work. This is bad for my skin and yours if you fall into this category because your skin needs water to stay healthy promoting circulation and lack of it leaves your skin dry and rigid loosing its flexibility and So drinking alot of water helps
  3. Eat fruits: this is a hard one because I am personally battling with this currently because when I am stressed I tend to eat alot of junk especially if I have to be up all night I get hungry at night and snack on something or eat at an odd hour which is neither good for my skin or my body. Stocking up on fruits and veggies is the trick to this, that way you can have an healthier snack plus fruits contain antioxidants that help protect your skin from cellular damages caused by free radicals. Also eating a good amount of fruits help your skin and digestive system.
  4. Moisturize: Do not I repeat DO NOT be too busy to moisturize your skin. Trust me it will thank you. Lack of moisture affects the skin so to maintain the ph balance on your skin you should definitely Moisturize. Remember the best way to achieve this is to moisturize within 2 minutes of leaving the shower for better absorption.
  5. Exercise: now before you jump the gun I am not telling you to run 12 miles but a little activity here and there helps you sweat which ultimately helps your skin breathe which is great for your skin. Plus exercise increase blood flow that helps norish your skin.

Bonus Point: Lay off makeup for awhile if you can. I have been doing this personally, you are already stressed so is yoyr skin adding makeup to that mix may not be a good idea for both you and your skin. And if you have to wear makeup like I have to through out this week (I have some events to attend) please endeavor to clean it up properly before going to bed.

Here are my tips on taking care of your skin and preseving your beauty even through the most stressful periods of your life. If you have any additional tips I would love to know them lets exchange tips.

I hope you enjoyed the post, have a blessed day Ahead with glowy skin. Love D.A💋

Sponsored Post: AFRICAN CREATIVE EXHIBITION AND AWARDS 2018: What to Expect at the Second Edition.

Creative Micro, Small ad Meduim size Enterprises (MSMEs) have invaded Nigeria and we certainly are not complaining.

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In 2016, it became apparent that Nigeria was an import driven nation and that was how the “Buy Naija to the grow Naira” came to be.

However, various sects of the economy are realising that for Nigeria to diversify and become an export driven nation, the beam light falls on MSMEs.
It is almost time for the second edition of the annual African Creative Exhibition and Awards (termed ACE Awards) hosted by Bellafricana.

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It brings to Lagos the best creative minds in the fields of Art and Craft, Fashion, Manufacturing, Beauty, Food Produce and so much more.
The Awards is an initiative of Bellafricana, a platform with a focus on Afrocentric Made-in-Nigeria (Africa) Non-oil products development where customers and suppliers engage and transact to bridge the buyer-seller gap and create a wider outreach for Nigerian (African) products locally & globally.
Micro, small and medium-size businesses nationwide produce a great deal of outstanding products, yet these creative business owners aren’t encouraged to innovate and create more.
Bukky Asehinde, Managing Director at Bellafricana says “Everyone likes a pat on the back when they have done something good. Our mission for the ACE Awards is to give these Creative Businesses a platform to receive the recognition they have long deserved”
ACE AWARDS 2018 is themed “Creativity and Innovation in Nation Building” and is scheduled to hold on Saturday, April 28, 2018 by 9:00am at D-Venue, Water Corporation Drive, Off Ligali Ayorinde, Oniru, Lagos, Nigeria.

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It is endorsed by the Lagos State Government, Ministry of Tourism, Arts and Culture, the Nigerian Export Promotion Council (NEPC), Lagos Chamber of Commerce and Industry (LCCI), Nigeria-Britain Association amongst others. It will offer participants a unique opportunity to showcase their talents and to have their work judged by consumers and experts.
This Annual African Creative Exhibition and Awards (ACE Awards) aims to laud the creative works of Nigerians (Africans) and is certainly one of the strongest tools in awakening creative, innovative and entrepreneurship drive in young people in Nigeria and indeed Africa.

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ACE Awards 2018 has also received backings from the Lagos State Employment Trust Fund (LSETF), Nigerian Export Promotion Council (NEPC) and supported by other organisations such as Sovereign Guards, Digital Marketing Skill Institute, DODO Agency, Noah’s Ark, Labule, Swift, Uber, ASSETS, Lara Rose, Bella Naija, The Guardian, Inside Watch Africa, Metro Woman, Pulse Nigeria, Connect Nigeria, Woman.ng, The Entrepreneur Africa, Africa on Rise, BEN TV, NTA, Lost in Lagos, Farabale, DHL, Boulos, Mamahz model and much more.
This will be a three phase event in which two (Exhibition and Conference) of the phases will run simultaneously while the third phase (Awards Dinner) will be held as the peak of the event.
EVENT FACTS
Theme: “Celebrating Creativity and Innovation”
Conference Theme: “Creativity and Innovation in Nation Building”
Date: April 28, 2018
Venue: DVenue, Water Corporation Drive, Off Ligali Ayorinde, Oniru, Lagos, Nigeria.
Time for Exhibition: 10 – 4pm
Time for Awards Dinner: 5 – 9pm
To see the official top 3 Nominees List for ACE Awards 2018: Click here

To purchase your ticket for the awards dinner  Click here

For partnership and sponso inrship’s details, please contact the organisers;

Call: +2348086363970

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Register: event.bellafricana.com

 

Life: Time wasting closer to Death

What does it mean to have a fulfilled life and how does living a fulfilled life have to do with time management?

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Time is constant it cannot be controlled or bought which makes it the most valuable commodity yet.

“Tick Tock says the clock tick tock what you want to do, do quick”

Imagine how the world would be if you could purchase time. I do not think that alot of us would be at our present level of sucess or failure. We would buy ourselves more time on that exams so we can get that A, we would add extra work hours to earn more, get to our appointments on time, choose our relationships wisely, extend our vacations to rest more.

Imagine if we could go back in time to change whatever we want, well we will take ourselves back to the time where we made that wrong decision that almost ruined our lives and undo it. We will take ourselves back to when we didnt have the courage to take that opportunity and take it. We will undo all the decisons we regret and make new ones.

Alot of people say only “if I could turn back time, only if I had more time”; we are constantly chasing time. Deadlines, Closing Dates, Ageing and so on.

Although we know the importance of time and how it affects our lives we still choose to ignore it. I don’t know if that is negligence or sheer stupidy.

I never understood the phrase “live each day like its your last” until I started trying to understand the beauty of time. I am very sure if we all knew our dates of death we will live our lives better and more consciously. We will take that class, we will start that business, book that flight, we will do so many things we always wanted to do but too scared to do.

How do we live more productive lives well adequate management and maximization of our 24 hours daily is a big step towards achieving that goal. This isn’t an automatic process but it is achievable over a preiod of time when done repeatedly.

Gradually take back your time by refocusing your attention and prioritizing. In other words dedicate a good majority of your time to your self development. It will be worth it.

Tick tock says the clock what you want to do, what decisions you want to make make them now. You really do not have all the time in the world. Just the way the church bells chimes reminding us of the time. We should always have that inner chime reminding us that with every second that passes we are closer to our death beds hence we should all cherish every minute and every second of our days and put it to good use.

Hope you enjoyed this post. I am currently focusing my time on my self growth as usually by engaging in mind and soul Awakening experiences like reading. I am currently reading Girl Boss by Sophia Amoruso, and it has  been a lovely read so far. I think I should do a review in my next post. Make the most of your time love D.A💋

The fashion piece you should have in your wardrobe and Hello April!

It’s officially the end of the first week in April and I just realized it’s April already! The last time I took cognisance of time it was the end of February and look it is already the fourth month of 2018. This year have been so hectic and I have been having difficulty recollecting myself and making posts on the blog and I apologise for that. I have been asked how I keep up blogging and being a student and freelance writer well truth be told I have no idea I know I try my best to create content and I have procrastinated a lot lately especially when it comes to putting out the work on the blog because I always feel it is not yet ready  but I have come to realise  its all in my head.

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So to catch you up on what I have been up to lately, I have been studying, creating content on TheBloggerPoint and Pulse amidst all these I have been battling finishing my final year project and reading educational and motivational books. A week or so ago I had some sort of breakdown like writers block I couldn’t write I will pick up my laptop and stare at it until I fall asleep it was terrible so I took a break and tried to refocus my energy for some days and I wont say I am fully back to being me but I feel better and I will get there.

The fashion piece you should have in your wardrobe.

On the Fashion fort I have been in-love with Kimonos for a while now and I think it is absolutely fashionable because it can be styled in different ways like I did below.

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Kimonos originated from japanese fashion  but has since evolved from the floor length robes into chic fashionable pieces of full and also half length made with a variety of textures of materials and it is very fun to style and wear.

My favorite kinds of Kimonos are the floral printed ones because they are so fun and flirty, my second favs will be the silk ones.

 

Another reason I love kimonos are the fact that they are versatile and can be styled differently. I have worn a kimono as a beach cover, a dress, paired it with jeans and an inner, styled it as a top trust me you can do so much with this article of clothing.

You can even sexy it up a little making it your own “victoria secret” this works for the silk kimonos trust me they look so cute and chic. The kimono may not be a trend right now but it is definitely a very essential fashion piece and you should own at least one of them.

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My Outfit Details:

silk kimono – The5kshop  (i love its texture it’s currently sold out but if interested you could contact the store)

Long Floral Kimono- Handmade Toreracouture

Floral cotton kimono- Thrifted (bought it for about N500 somewhere around lagos cannot really remember)

Red Pants- Thrifted also (bargained these pants and got it for less than N1K5 (less than $5 I was so happy)

White inner- Thrifted also

Jeans- A gift from my sister 

My love for Kimonos is so strong I feel everyone should own one anyways that’s my opinion what is yours? Do you like Kimonos as much as I do or not? Drop your comment and let’s discuss. I hope you are enjoying this new month so far, are you experiencing any  any challenges? I would love to know I am not alone in the crew of the stressed and almost depressed. I hope you enjoyed this post, don’t forget to share your thoughts have a wonderful weekend. 

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Oh and Happy New Month. Love D.A💋

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Eko Tales: A cooking Party at Samantha’s Bistro featuring tasty custom Burgers.

Today, a couple of creatives and I attended a cooking party themed “Burgers and Cooking Parties” hosted by Samantha’s Bistro, Pulse.ng and Gourmet Burger Bar.

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This is the first cooking party I have ever attended and yes it was really fun. We were a party of about 13 including the chefs, the lovely Chef Dumbei and the handsome Chef James.

Our challenge was to make our burgers with the ingredients we got from playing a game the twister. We played in pairs, I was paired with an amazing wordpress blogger Sortgut she was really fun partner

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After playing my round I ended up with a receipe/ingredient list which will guide me into making my own burger. You can imagine my excitment when I saw things like pineapple, Emmental Cheese (which I called elementary cheese silly me 😊), oxtail and veggie patty.

My list

Making my burger

After adding my filling which was a mixture of pieces of pineapple, advocado, cheese, lean bacon and so on. My custom made Burger was  almost ready.

The last step was “cooking” it using fire, that was honestly the coolest part because you see the effect fire has on the cheese and filling as it melt the drippy sauce and ready to be eaten. After that last step Dee’s cheese veggie patty and beacon Burger was ready for consumption.

The cooking party was so much fun and I learnt how to make a burger and got to connect with so many amazing people. It exceeded my expectations.

I had a great time, I will definitely be visiting again. Have you ever attended a cooking party? Do you like burgers? Let’s discuss in the comment section below.

Ps: My Burger tasted fresh and absolutely yummy (and I am not just saying this because I made it).

Have a lovely weekend.

Love D.A ♥.

Your Money: Having a positive attitude towards money helps you manage it better.

The money talk is usually very uncomfortable for most people. People usually do not like talking about their finances or their spending habits because it isn’t easy to discuss what they fail to realise is this having a positive view towards money help you manage it better.

Most people dread tracking their spending why? because they feel money isn’t something that they can be controlled and most individuals do not like discussing things or circumstances they feel they cannot control.

That is a bad attitude towards money, feeling that it is an item that you cannot have control over makes money control you instead of you controlling your money which is wrong because you can control your money.

Let us start this with a mantra start by saying “it is MY Money” repeat this after me “It is MY Money” and “I control what is MINE, hence, I can control MY Money” why? Because it is YOURS so best believe that you can control it.

Now that is first step to controlling your spending and even earning habits it all starts from your mind. Having good control of your spending is the first step to adequately managing your money after that has been achieved then, you can start saving by starting a rainy day fund which is a bold step in making a great financial decision for yourself and for your future.

Yes, financial security can be achieved but not overnight and definitely not with a negative attitude towards money.

How having a positive attitude towards money can help beef up your earning capabilities.First off to control your money you have to start by earning some money in the first place. The fear of talking about your finances my be the very thing hindering your earning more. A practical example of a man working at a firm diligently for well over 5 years without promotions or improvement in his salary. Now the most sensible thing will be to ask for a raise based on the fact that he has earned it and deserved it and this should be relatively easy except for the minor issue of his negative attitude towards money hence, he gets scared and sweaty and cannot talk about his much deserved raise not because he feels he doesn’t deserve it, he knows he does but he would rather not talk about money because he feels he cannot understand or control money.

This happens to a lot of people and the situation is quite uncommon and isn’t all that unique because a lot of people out there believe they cannot control money which may interpret to believing they do not deserve money.

One major step to taking control of your life is taking control over your finances. It shows a degree and a level of responsibility on your part towards what is important which is your money.

All this starts however, with having a positive attitude towards your money. Make a conscious effort to get comfortable talking and analyzing your money that way you can manage spend and earn it better. Get positive about your money today.

I really hope this post was helpful to you, I really want to know your view on this, does your attitude to money matter? Share your thoughts at the COMMENT section. Enjoy your weekend.

Love D.A

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Hey Sis! Yes you.

It’s international women’s day and all I can think of sharing with my beautiful amazing sisters out there all over the world reading this a piece I wrote some time ago.

Women

More than the lipstick

More than those stilettos

More than the inches of weave and extentions

More than the nail polish

More than the natural curls

We are more than what the eyes can see

Judging a book by its cover should be a crime

Judging a female by her grooming choices are absurd

Beneath that Russian red are prayerful lips

Beneath the inches of weave and extentions and curls are working brains

Beneath the mascara eyes that have cried more tears than you could imagine

Beneath the layers of clothing is a hearts that bleeds for love ones

Beneath those polished nails are hardworking hands

Women suffer as much as any other humans on earth

Women are judged more than any other humans on earth also

We only know how to dress everything up to look cute and shining

We only know how to hide the flaws and pains better

Remember this when next you want to Judge a woman

Remember we are MORE.

-D.A

Being a woman isn’t easy being a woman in 2018 isn’t easy but you got this rise above it all, know that you are more and you can be anything and do anything. Because you’re a QUEEN!

And to all the men that support the women in their lives and push them to be better and make understand their beauty and strength. You are Heros, Warriors and Kings and we appreciate you💋.

Happy International Women’s Day Sis. Love D.A♥

Epe Resort and Spa: A review 10 things to do while visiting.

Winning a two night stay at the luxurious Epe resort and Spa through a bloggers writing challenge hosted by Pulse.ng has been one of the best things to happen to me so far in 2018. I was there last weekend and I am sharing 10 things to do while visiting the Epe Resort and Spa.

Location.

Epe Resort and Spa is located at Epe a town and local government in Lagos State, Nigeria. It is easily assessable as it is at the north side of the Lekki Lagoon off Lekki- Epe expressway in Lagos.

The Resort is barely an hour away from Lekki and although it was a bit far from Lagos mainland getting there was easy, roads were good and locating the Resort was easy breezy as it is along the Epe expressway.

The Epe resort and Spa is the perfect spot for a vacation, holiday getaway, “baecation” or in my case a “mecation” (made up word me on a vacation) because it is away from Lagos hustle and bustle. Check in time is 2pm which I found really cool because it gives guests enough time to sleep in and check out.

My experience.

I won a voucher for two (2) for two nights with complimentary breakfast and I decided to go with my sister, my twinnie (@mz_annie) and I had the most chilled two days ever! My reservation was booked and I checked in at 2pm on the Friday, 16th February 2018, we were so excited we got to the resort 30 minutes before check in.

The first thing that caught my eyes at the resort at the reception was the interior I was like oh my gawd! I loved it instantly, the same goes for my room which was gorgeous, comfortable and fully air conditioned. The water was clean hot and cold water available, room spacious, with a private outdoor sitting area unique to every room.

The Staff at the resort were very polite, friendly and helpful, room service responded in time, there was Wi-Fi assessable to guests, environment serene and very relaxing, and the food was great I enjoyed every meal especially breakfast.

My stay was really relaxing and fun I checked out 18th February, 2018 after having breakfast. I had a full experience and there is a lot to do while visiting the Epe Resort and Spa.

10 things to do while visiting Epe resort and spa:

There are so many things to do at the Epe resort and Spa, here are some of these things:

Enjoy the restaurant breakfast or dinner buffet: breakfast buffet was one of my favorite times during my stay, there is a variety to choose from baked beans, toast, cereal, egg sauce, Irish potatoes, chicken sauce and so on. Thinking about that buffet is making me hungry, food is well cooked and delicious and staff is really nice.

Order room service and enjoy lunch or dinner in the comfort of your room: there is a wide range of affordable meals and drinks to choose from the menu. You can call room service and order yourself a delicious meal and guess what? You do not need to bother about cash because they have you covered you can pay with your card when your food is delivered.

Or Treat yourself to a massage: the spa isn’t up and running yet but you can treat yourself to spa treatments on order.

  • Take a bicycle ride, a run or a walk: bicycles are provided at the premises for those that love to take bicycle rides and the environment encourages bicycle rides, runs and walks especially during the mornings and evenings.

  • Enjoy a relaxing swim or play a game at the court: there is a beautiful pool by the restaurant and also a court where you can play tennis.

  • You could also Sit outdoors and just enjoy the serenity: there are a lot of places at the Epe resort where you can just sit outdoors and enjoy the serenity. The restaurant has an outdoor space where you can seat and have something to drink, you can also do this by the poolside or the outdoor space by your room maybe you could catch the breath taking sunset or sunrise.

  • Go sight-seeing around Epe: Epe is a very beautiful place hence you can go sight-seeing around the town. The notable Epe fish market is just a few when you get back you could just take advantage of the bathtub and soak in rejuvenating bath.

  • Sleep in and watch a lot of tv if you are the television type: the television had variety of channels to choose from, hence relaxing by the television is always a good idea.

  • Interact and socialize: the staff are friendly and ready to answer any questions you have therefore interacting with them and the other guests will absolutely be fun or take the time to finish off work take advantage of the free Wi-Fi if you are not much of the socializing type.
  • Take lots of pictures! The resort is very photographic therefore do not forget to take as many pictures as possible to document your stay. I did thanks to my sister who is great with the camera.

The Epe resort and Spa is beautiful and I had a lovely stay and I would love to go back someday soon. A big thank you to Pulse for the opportunity to experience the Epe Resort I cannot wait to experience more and share. If you are in the Epe area do not hesitate to visit the Resort.

I hope you liked this post share your thoughts on the comment section. Love D.A♥

Life: Promises Fulfiled and Broken ( Effects of broken promises)

One of the pharses I hate hearing the most is the “i will make it up to you” pharse. Why? Because this usually comes after a promise has been broken.

Promises are a declaration that something will or will not be done, given, etc., by someone to another person.

Promises are scared to me (one of the reasons I rarely make them) and I am sure to so many other people also. When you make a promise to a person you bind a person with hope.

Ever broken a promise before and your relationship with that person never remained the same? Well if yes, here is a simply example showing the psychology behind that change in behavior.

Promises breed expectations and hope. If you tell a child “I will get you ice cream on my way back from work” in the morning before you leave for work. From the moment you say it to the child to the moment you get home he is in anticipation expectant of that ice cream probably checking the clock for the time praying you close early and get him his ice cream in time. Same goes for relationships if you promise you would do something for a friend, husband, wife he or she automatically feels hope its like half of the problem is solved because of the trust they have in you, you just lifted that person from a pit of despair and when you fail to fulfil your promise, you throw them back into that pit deeper into that pit.

The psychological effect of breaking promises:

How do you think distrust breeds within relationships? Breaking promises is one of these ways. Breaking a promise always seem to hurt. And if this happens alot then a major problem is breeding within that relationship.

Why do people make promises and break them? Okay, honestly I struggled with this for a while. Like why? You didnt have to make the promise. Like theperson was probably going to figure it out anyways before you offered the help you never gave, the person was probably okay before you offered to do that thing you never did. So why trying to make a bad situation worse? Or what purpose. But I get it, its easy to offer a friend your help in the moment so you dont seeem like a bad person. I get it you do ut for your conscience but do you not think that is an absolutely selfish thing to do. Especially if you know you won’t fulfil that promise?

Sometimes it may not be your fault though and that is understandable but the problem begins when this becomes a norm within a relationship.

See Post: Conflict: When is it okay to walk away?

To solve this little problem of constantly breaking promises cannot be easy because I know it feels good to make a promise because you will seem like such a great person in that moment but always remember before you open your mouth to say something you know you probably wont do. The follow up is more important.

  • Don’t make promises to look like a good person.
  • Don’t make promises under pressure and you know you won’t fulfil.
  • Don’t make promises to yourself that you know you wont fulfil.
  • Don’t make promises at all if you know you have no plans on fulfilling them.

By doing these you wont spread the seed of disappointment around.

In all your dealing try as much as possible to keep up to your words. It may not be easy but it is important to be a person that does what he/she says and says what he/she means.

Trust me it makes you a better person, a more trust worthy person and this is great for your relationship with yourself and other people.

What do you think of promises? Have you ever broken a promise? What was your reason? Do you think it had a negative effect? Share with me in the comment section below.

Thank you for reading. Have a lovely week ahead. LOVE D.A♥

Your Money: Why you should have your own Domain name and host it.

Some weeks back I was on my regular internet surfing about a topic that had been bugging me for a while Domain names and hosting.

So about 2am or so in the morning after surfing countless pages on the net I came across a website that searches for appropriate domain names and hosts it for as little as $15/ year and I decided to share this with you.

For those that do not know a Domain name is a unique name that identifies a website this can be your business name, blog name, online store and so on.

The importance of having a domain name cannot be over emphasized as research have shown that having a domain name makes your website have a unique identity like an online business card which is makes it easily accessible to people all over the world.

How do you obtain a Domain name you may ask?

The first step in obtaining a Domain name is choosing a name suitable for your brand. For instance if you are a food blogger or have a recipe making business and you want a website for your blog or recipes you can choose a domain name like “RecipesbyNeil“. Choosing a name unique to your brand is very important as it introduces people to your brand even before they visit your website.

After choosing your unique name tbe next step is to get a web host service provider to register your unique domain name. Registering your domain name takes it off the makert making it unique to only you and your brand.

See previous Post: Your Money: 5 Saving Myths vs Actual Facts.

You can register your domain name monthly, annually, biannually as it case may be. You also have to keep renewing your registration.

During my research I came across a web host service provider Druts where you can register your domain name for $12 per year, which I think is a very reasonable deal.

A domain name is very important so you can Save towards buying your unique domain name specific for your businesses, blogs, online stores and so on you can check out Druts at and purchase yours if you want to make that bold step.

Do you have a domain name? Have you ever thought of getting one? Ever tried Druts or any other web hosting service providers? Share with me on the comment section.

Have a lovely weekend. Love D.A♥

My Eko Tales: Why you should visit Kalakuta Republic.

Visiting the Kalakuta Republic has been on my wishlist since before I stepped my feet in Eko because I have always been fascinated with Fela Kuti and the Kalakuta Queens. So when I got the chance of visiting the Kalakuta Republic I was beyond ecstatic.

Growing up I listened to the iconic Fela Kuti and always wondered about his story and legacy.

Some time last year I got the opportunity of visiting the Kalakuta Republic which is the home of Fela Kuti but I couldn’t enter the museum so I didn’t write about it.

On February 10th 2018, my friends – Paula, Inemesit, Iyanu and Bolu and I decided to take a little adventure and visit the controversial Kalakuta Republic.

Back Story

For those that do not know Fela Kuti, he was a Legend the founder and Father of Afro beats in Nigeria and Africa. A Political activist and a civil right movement leader who fought for the rights of the mere Nigerian.

Back in the day of my parents Fela Kuti spoke against the injustices he saw in his country Nigeria, he spoke against the then military government and received a lot of negativity for all he said through his amazing afro beats sound.

He was beaten, abused, boycotted, his house was burnt down, his people beaten and battered, he was accused to a lot of crimes and was imprisoned.

Listening to Fela feels like walking the path of history from the view of an outspoken Nigerian Man in the times of political unrest. Some of his best songs include Unknown Soldier, Zombie, Teacher don’t teach me Nonsense, Fellow fever, Lady to mention a few.

I dare say there is no song Fela sang that didn’t make sense and didn’t pass a message across to his audience.

Kalakuta Republic

Kalakuta Republic was founded by Fela Kuti, he named his home after the first jail cell he ever slept in being that he was detained for a song he sang about the government. It is loacated at No. 7 Gbemisola st, Allen Ikeja Lagos State, Nigeria.

His then home was the first Kalakuta Republic which was later burnt down by an “unknown soldier” as the judge called ruled out the case in court that the act was perpetrated by an unknown soldier. Fela sang about this injustice in one of his songs.

The Kalakuta republic ran differently it was a city within a city. Day was night and night day. There was no short of music, art and laughter as it was a land of creatives from all parts of the country.The official language was pidgin or English for easy communication and unity. Every man had a right and so did the women, the Kalakuta Queens where the electric dancers that lit up the stage during Fela’s performance.

Fela who was the father to all made sure everyone had everything they needed and they were all taken care of.

Our tour guide the very patient Mr A took us around the 4 story buiding that is Kalakuta Republic and I enjoyed every bit of our tour.

He gave us first hand encounters of the experiences the Political Activist Fela Kuti faced in the hands of the then Nigerian Government and through his eyes I got the see Fela in another light.

5 things I learnt from my visit:

i. BE BOLD and do not stop until you achieve your dreams. Fela was threatened, beaten and abused but he never took the easy way out.

ii. LEGENDS ARE NOT BORN BUT MADE. Enduring so much hatred and receiving so much love made Fela into the legend he is today.

iii. THE HEART OF MAN IS WICKED. Humans naturally do not like hearing the truth and your art may suffer because of this human trait. Remaining true to yourself and your truth is very important. You may lose some people and receive hate but your audience is out there just waiting to discover you so keep pushing.

iv. LOVE WHAT YOU DO AND DO WHAT YOU LOVE. Our tour guide Mr. A is the definition of a man doing what he loves. He took us on a tour and answered every question we had effortlessly and even let us fool around a bit taking lots of pictures.

v. DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU HEAR. Kalakuta has a reputation of being the “smokers place” where “drug addicts” visit, but people fail to talk about how amazing the museum is and what a legend Fela kuti is.

My eyes have been open and so has my heart. I absolutely love everything Fela related and my visit increased this love immensely, because the man fought for a purpose and achieved his purpose. My country and my persent generation owe alot of our freedoms to this legend.

My favorite song will always remain Fela KutiLady. Everyone has their demons he fought his he wasnt perfect but he was and will always remain a LEGEND.

If you are in Lagos or come visiting you can visit the Kalakuta Republic take a tour say hi to the tour guide and tell him Destiny and her friends say hi. A tour is very inexpensive just one thousand naira ( N1000 ) per person worth every penny.

I hope you enjoyed My Eko Tales and I hope you had a lovely weekend.

Have an amazing week ahead if you are down you can sit back and listen to Fela Kuti and catch up with some Nigerian history.

Have you ever heard of Fela and his music? What’s your favorite song? Ever been to the Kalakuta Republic? Do you want to go? Share below in the COMMENT section. Love D.A♥

Life Lately: How I won a blogger writing Challenge (Highlight of my January 2018)

January was a bit of a challenging month for me but the highlight of it has been winning a blogger writing Challenge by Pulse Nigeria.

Can I get a what what! *doing a belly dance*

The challenge stated that the top two bloggers with combined highest generated traffic from December 1st, 2017 to January 6th, 2018 will win 2 tickets for a luxurious Stay At the Epe Resort and Spa.

When I saw this challenge, Fam! I was beyond excited because I have heard of this place before, and really wanted to win.

I had plans of writing my article and submitting it before the deadline but I was under alot of pressure majorly from school and myself because it was the first month of the year and I ususally put alot of pressure on myself to do better be better, set those goals map out a plan to achieve them and all.

Also, educationally January is the month I write my first semester exams, so alot of reading, studying and rereading is involved. I barely had time to update my blog and write the articles I promised I will write to join the pulse.ng bloggers challenge. Even during the holiday I was really busy with my project and well Christmas chicken that procastination became my middle name.

Anyways, I finally sent in my article on the 5th of January, very close to the deadline and truth be told I didn’t hope for much when I sent it in. My article Men are not Shoes was inspired by t

he African concept of love, relationship and marriage and the expected role for women in relationships.

I wrote it and sent it in a night, truth be told  truth be told I have never shared such a thought provoking article in my life. I usually write them and hid them due to the fear of backlash and people saying what does she know that she wants to say about love and relationship, so I almost didn’t send in the Article but something came to mind I told myself “Dee what can really happen? The worst that happens is that they think it’s trash and do not post it”

So hit SEND and a few weeks later while I was out studying for my exams I recieved a message from the Blogger Manager Mr FBI (that’s how i saved his number on my phone 😆) and he gave me the good news.

I was so excited I let out a shout of joy disturbing everyone reading with me (sorry guys) I couldnt sit still I was just jiggly and dancing in my seat. Especially because I didnt even in my wildest dreams think I will win due to self doubt and procastination .

An article published the winners of the challenge on the Pulse Website and I went by the office to pick my prize yesterday it was amazing.

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Mr FBI giving me my Prize

 

In all the month of January taught me one lesson if you have anything to get done like Nike says “Just Do It!” before you succeed in talking yourself out of it. You will thank yourself later. I finally finished my chapter 2 in my project just have a few corrections to effect and I also finished my exams so I am beyond happy. Time to take on more responsibilities.

Therefore, I am going into February excited, energetic and grateful for my wins and for the support I recieved so far the views on my blog and the websites I currently contribute to Pulse and The Blogger Point (a platform that helps and connects bloggers).

To all the subscribers and followers on my blog and social media (@deeawata on instagram and chicitynomad on Facebook platforms) that read my work from all parts of the world and give their honest opinions thank you from the bottom of my heart. To my blogger group where I got the opportunity of getting involved in content contribution for Pulse Nigeria I say a big thank you life isnt boring and more productive with @ThebloggerAdvocate (advocating for blogger growth and dreams). I love you all.

I will be launching a new series on my blog titled MY EKO TALEs under Fun and Adventure where I will be sharing my experiences around Lagos, Nigeria (Eko Lagos) which will start with my visits of amazing places. Alot of Photography will definitely be involved of course

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Are you excited ? I sure am. I can’t wait to start posting and go on my 2 days trip to Epe (which I will definently share in a post) guess who i am taking along with me?

If you have been to Epe resort and spa kindly send in reviews and suggest ways to have fun because I want to make the most of my days there.

How was your month? Any challenges? Any wins? Share with me in with a comments below!

Note: Do not let procastination and self doubt make you loose an awesome opportunity you never know what God has in store for you all that is left, is for you to play your part

Happy New Month and have an amzing weekend. Love D.A♥

Your Money: 5 Saving Myths vs Actual Facts.

Today on Your Money we are having a conversation, rather I will be focusing on some Saving myths and actual facts. Why you should save your money and the reasons why you should change your mindset on saving.

First off, we all earn money right? Be it wages, salaries or allowances, No matter how little, it’s still some amount of money earned right?

Yes I earn money. So what?

Okay, You earn but do you Save? Do you have some savings to show for your productivity? Do you Save some money from your earnigs? These are a few questions I want you to focus on as you read this article.

What does it mean to Save Money?

Saving can be defined as income not spent or deferred consumption. Put simply to save is systematically setting aside a portion of your earnings in a separate accout for future purposes. So why aren’t you saving?

Some time ago whenever I am told to save some part of my income (allowances I’m a student) the first thing that comes to my mind is “with which money?”. Like what am I supposed to save when I have alot of wants and needs to be fulfilled (let’s be realistic for a second here we as humans have more wants than needs). I have come to realise that there are lots of myths associated with the idea of Saving.

These myths entwined with saving are usually the reasons we dont engage in saving.

Myth 1: “With which money?”

This is the first myth I had to vounter, the myth that I needed to recieve or “make” more to enable saving. Alot of people believe their income is so small that they cant save.

Fact: No matter your income you can save. Yes you that earns $50 equilvalent N18,000. Yes you can save, no matter now little even if its $5 or $10 or even as little as $2 you can save. For my Nigerian brothers and sisters we always believe saving is for those earning “big” no fam! You have it all wrong you can save N1000, N2000 or even N500 and you can start a saving today.

Myth 2:Just Save anything”

When I finally decided to start saving I would save N5000 today and N200 tomorrow and pat myself on the back like Go girl you have saved this money. Oya go and buy those shoes (I love shoes). Your saving for last month covered you this month. No no no.

Fact: I think we should all practice “concious” saving. By this I mean have a savings plan where you state in detail how much you want to put aside, why you want to and for how long like a goal. For example if I earn N5000 or $50 and I want to save N1000 or $10 every month from my earnings I think how will this affect my day to day life? And will I be able to keep this up monthly? After answering these questions if am still unsure then the best move will be to reduce the amount to a more sustainable sum of probably N500 or $5 which I can track over time.

Myth 3: ”I dont need to separate my savings because won’t be tempted”

Now this is one of the funniest ones because I have said this lie to myself alot! So I dont separate my savings well its a scam. When I used only one bank account to keep all my “monies” I ended up “borrowing” from my so called savings and I never paid back.

Fact: You NEED a separate bank account for your savings this is very important and keeps you out of the path of temptation literally and enables you keep track of your savings. I for one do not even have an atm to my saving account why? Being the shoe lover I am, I never want to be so tempted by a pair of Steve Madden that I forget myself and spend out of my savings.

Myth 4: “Savings isn’t fun”

I never saw saving money as fun, I used to see it as a burden like a sacrifice. Honestly I wasn’t excited the first time I put money into my “official savings account” because I was thinking of all the stuff I could buy with the money.

Fact: This was the case until I started saving I never saw the joy in it but after 5 months of saving my account was looking good. I felt proud of myself I was like “girllllllll”. It felt good and I was motivated to save more. So yes saving can be fun!

Myth 5: “You can stop saving when you reach your goal”

Okay this one is one that confuses alot of people setting a goal for saving doesn’t mean when you achieve that goal you stop saving, fold your hands and say “good job”.

Fact: There is no end to saving. If your income increases, increase your saving ratio and vice versa but do not stop saving. Even when you have to use all your savings and the goal was to settle an immediate need and you do, continue saving because other needs may arise. You can also save towards retirement, health care, paying off your rent or mortagage and so many other things including a vacation! Money saved comes in very handy and even in death savings may solve a need in the family of the deceased.

If you are not yet sold on saving, Here are some reasons why you should save:

  • Saving is a major key in building long term wealth.
  • Saving money helps you build discipline.
  • Saving helps you cultivate better spending habits.
  • Savings come in handly in cases of emergencies.
  • You can save for financial security.
  • Lastly saving gives you a sense of self fulfillment.

On all the monies earned and spent we should definitely Save even if its little in a regular systematic manner to ensure some level of financial security. Now back to my initial question Are you saving? Do you save? Have you ever had any myths as relating to saving? Share your tgoughts on the commment section. Let’s discuss!

I hope this article has been useful to you. If there are any topics relating to your money and finace you would love to see on these blog series. Kindly leave a title on the comment section.

Have a wonderful and fulfilled weekend. Love D.A♥

Fashion lately: Styling Polka Dot Pants

Hello lovelies, Is it too late to say Happy January because I have been enjoying this month so far you can see that from my choice Polka Dots Pants.

For my fashion segments on the blog, I have changed the title from Outfit of the day to fashion lately.

So on fashion lately I am styling my polka dot pants! I have never really been a Polka Dots fan, although polka dots pants are classic and I love classic pieces.

Short story: these pants where Thrifted a while ago and I got them specifically because I wanted to try sometime really new but I never got around actually wearing it up until now.

I paired the polka dot pants with a basic white top which was also Thrifted some time ago because I wanted to accentuate the white “polka dots” on the pants.

My favorite sandals right now did the trick of enlongating my legs. It was sunny and my hair was being unruly so I picked up a Visor and sunnies.

This outfit was easy to style and wear especially on a sunny day.

There are also some tips on how you can wear the polka dots pattern on pants and how to pull off this look differently and not look silly:

  • When pairing polka dots always go for basic colors thhat will make the piece pop. You can choose white, red or even green as long as it goes with your skintone
  • Be fun, i have come to realize that you can dress the polka dots trend up and down. This time I choose sandals, you can dress it up in heels and a blazer (i will try this look) and dress it down in sandals or even sneakers with a basic top
  • Choose the pattern of “polkas” that suit your silhouette. If you havent noticed the dots have different partterns so its important yo choose one that will be complimentary to your shape.
  • When wearing polka dots blouses its it important to choose a loosely fitted one as it looks more chic and classy.

What do you think of this outfit? Share your thoughts on Polka Dots in the comment section below and have a lovely weekend ahead. Love D.A♥

Your Money: What are your Money Goals this year?

Welcome to 2018 dear readers! We made it to another wonderful year.

With every new year comes new goals to be set and achieved. Self evaluation when setting goals for the new year cannot be over emphasized, but while we are evaluating every aspect of our lives over the last year to set ourselves GOALS for this year, we should not forget to include our finances.

The year of self realization just passed alot of us learnt that having a financial plan for the year is very important

What does your money do for you? This is one question we should all ask ourselves. What do we want our money to do for us? What did our money do for us last year?

You must gain control over your money or the lack of it will forever control you. –Dave Ramsey

We work and earn money but what does that money do for us! Alot cannot boast of savings, investments, trust funds and so on because of the way we mismanage our funds. Yes, it is true that available funds may be limited but we have to understand that funds will always be limited in supply against our demands ie. We will always want what we cannot afford at the moment that is how humans are built. We will always want to buy a house we know we cannot afford and even when we work long enough or save or invest long enough to get that house, we will move to wanting something else something bigger. This is why I believe we as human beings are naturally built to set challenging goals to beat. Starting the year on a clear financial picture will help in planning for our year adequately.

Our proposed expenses and expected incomes should be written down in a budget and updated from time to time. Here are some tips I think should be put into consideration when setting goals for 2018:

  • No Debt Rule: except you are a finance guru set a goal to not amass any debts this year. Why? Because it automatically eats into your disposable income. If you have a big project to undertake and you really need to borrow money to undertake that project, then make sure you borrow from a reputable institution with a reasonable interest rate. Make sure that is the only long term liability you owe and have a payment plan for the loan collected.
  • Budget it all: Ensure you do not Spend more than you earn that is the best way to stay debt free. I know those gucci shoes look great and you want to be a part of the self acclaimed “gucci gang” but if buying those pairs of shoes will cut so deep in your pocket that you will need to borrow some money to survive the next weeks before you recieve your next paycheck DO NOT buy them. They are not assets.

  • Assets: if you do not own any substantial Assets then this is the year to be looking into getting yourself a few of those. For those that do not know simply put an Asset is an economic resource tangible or intangible that is owned and controled to create value. An asset appreciates over time for example a land bought this year will be worth a lot more in 5 years. There are alot of assests to invest in that will add value in a few years and will eventually be worth the financial undertaking.
  • Multiple streams of Income: having more than one score of income is very important as it not only give financial security but it enables you undertake long term investments and asset acquisition.
  • Prioritize: always set your money goals in other of importance so as to not burden yourself. A priority list should be drawn and your goals should be set around this list. The most pressing expenses on top of the list and the least pressing finacial engagements at the bottom.
  • To Spend and To save: we should map out the portion of our income is to be spend and what portion is to be saved. And also set an amount we want to save this year for example if you set a goal of saving $500 (N180,000) at the end of the year as a goal then you know automatically that you need to save nothingless than $42 (N15,000) per month that means you have to make more than that amount obviously and also invest.
  • Have a plan: a plan of implementation to back our set goals is very important. Money is a terrible master but an excellent servant. –P.T. Barnum

Actions speak louder than words setting your goals and making moves starting from today will definitely be steps in the right direction in the wise words of Robert Kiyosaki “It’s not how much money you make, but how much money you keep, how hard it works for you, and how many generations you keep it for.” With that said A very happy new year to you I urge you to live your best life everyday of this year and work earnestly to achieve all set goals. May this year be the best for self development, financial advancement and wealth in knowledge and experiences. Happy 2018! Love D.A♥

Life Lessons I learnt this year.

It is finally the end of 2017 and I am saying goodbye to this awesome year. This year in all have been a process for me. I have been through alot this year and I have learnt alot. There are some life lessons I learnt this year

  • You aint shit: I learnt that there is always going to be someone that is better and more accomplished who can make us feel like we are so tiny in the world and so underachieving its a very humbling experience trust me. Knowing that you are just one very tiny voice in a sea of giants, can be disheartening sometimes but always strive to be better everyday nevertheless
  • You are Gold: yes baby solid gold! In as much as I realized I wasn’t shit, I also realized I am solid raw unrefined gold. Why? Because in all my shittiness I am an only edition not limited but number 1 and only 1, that uniqueness makes me gold and the realization of this is TRUTH.
  • Know your team: this year was trying for me especially in the aspect of relationships with others . We all have a squad, our guys and our friends but there is always a “team” within a squad. Those beautiful souls that are always out and down with you, for you and your growth are diamonds in rocks. Make an effort to identify and appreciate those humans because in a selfish world like ours it takes alot to promote someone else. I also learnt that there will always be people who are in your life for their own agendas and you have to be fully aware of these humans. Not all kindness is from tbe heart and not all anger is from hatred. Always remember a good majority of us walk around the streets wearing a mask above our real faces showing society a side of us that is not necessarily true.
  • Selflove is more than important: it is a necessity. Loving yourself, the human and the skin you are created with, just having agreat relationship with yourself is very important for growth.
  • Be your number 1 fan: I am the first to like my own pictures why? Because i have a theory that even if the world may not like me I have to love me for me. I also learnt that I should love myself enough to push myself to be the best every second of everyday get out of your comfort zone.
  • You teach others how to treat you: yes by the level of bullshit you are willing you accept they know your limits and can play on your emotions. Show quality you will be treated as such, show ratched well if the shoe fits. What I am trying to say is respect is reciprocal respect yourself and others will have no choice than to treat you in a respectable manner. Always define your boundaries with people especially those close to you dont just sweep it under the carpet you can choke on bullshit trust me on this.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t mean studipity: stay woke forgiving someone doesn’t necessarily mean you go back to the way you were before, give yourself time to heal. Only a fool doesn’t learn from his past experiences.
  • Only the foolish compare: do not compare yourself with anyone trust your journey. Don’t loose your uniqueness trying so hard to be successful like them. Be patient every dog has his day. I used to compare myself with everything and everyone sucessful because I thought I wasn’t good enough but this year I realized so freaking what? Now I let the gap between where I am to where I want to be be a source of inspiration and this has been working like magic.
  • Positive vibes only goes beyond the quote: givewhat you want to receive, you want positive vibes give positive vibes and stay away from the negativity. Protect your self and your peace.
  • You are in control don’t give anyone that power: in as much as the family and society factor weighs in your life, you remain the CEO making all the decisions so you have the ability to decide where your energy goes daily, to what and to whom. No one will make those decisions for you because only you know your passions and your dreams.
  • God is alive: have you ever experienced a love so great you are left in awe? In all my Days or nights, rain or sunshine, sadness or happiness there is someone who is there for me and you always and he will never forsake me or you. I have always known of the existence of God but his love has been too vivid in my life this year.

Reminiscing some of the favorite things that happened this year here some of the things I am greatful for this year:

  • May, when I opened my blog and all the milestones that came with it; first 50 likes on the blog and first 50 followers. My first 100likes and then first 100 followers, My first 1000 likes on the blog: trust me I was shook and My single best days with 50 plus best views
  • Joining the Bloggers advocate and being on the blogger point team of content providers. Having my articles published on Pulse.ng, meeting amazing creative souls on and offline. It has been simply amazing. Collaborations with brands and individuals on projects
  • My adventures and foodventures for the year Lekki Conversion center topping that list.
  • Connecting with so many people reaching 5k organic followers on instagram
  • When I recieved flowers without an occasion and first red carpet hosting
  • All year round growth and being alive to write this right now

Thank you all for everything. 2017 has been lit because I let God lead the way and it has been awesome not perfect but awesome. What did you learn this year?

Thank you all for your likes, comments on the blog and support through out this 2017 journey. I love you all kisses💋💋💋. More wins, more life, more of everything good. Love D.A

Movie Review: The Wedding Party 2

You asked for it and I am giving it to you all!

Welcome to my first movie review, today I will be giving my thoughts on the most anticipated movie of December 2017, The Wedding Party 2 starring Nigeria’s Favorite Couple Banky Wellington (Banky W), the gorgeous Adesuwa Etomi (Mrs W),Sola Sobowale,Patience Ozokwor, Richard Mofe Damijo,Ireti Doyle and many others So lets get into it shall we and I won’t be including any major spoilers.

First off, I loved wedding party 1 because it took me by surprise, I am not a movie buff hence the lack of movie reviews on the blog but I saw The Wedding Party 1 and my love for the Nigerian weddings and culture came back in full force so I couldn’t wait to see Part 2.

I will keep this short and simple. The movie started with the obvious accidental proposal of Nonso Onwuka Dozie’s fine ass older brother (😍 who happened to be unmarried in part 1), to the beautiful “oyinbo pepper” Dunni’s friend Deidre Winston. Although there was not much of a backstory of Nonso’s and Deidre’s romance before the propsal and their relationship, it seemed that they were only dating for a short while of 6 months (which Nonso’s mum didnt pass of an opportunity to point out).

Well skip to Diedre accepting and breaking the news to her parents and Nonso telling his family. Skip to her family coming to Nigeria after alot of convincing ofcourse, then skip to the White wedding in Dubai. Lets not forgwt the family feuds and Diedre finding out of the accidental proposal. Calling off the wedding, her friends and family sticking up and fighting for the love between her and Nonso to the third proposal then the wedding. Alot of memorable scenes in between the skips but I promised no spoilers. I however cannot fail to mention I noticed a chemistry between two cahracters you will never guess which two well see the movie to find out.

Here are my best Moments of TWP2 in no particular order:

  • When Dozie told off his ex
  • When they arrived Dubai
  • Seeing Diedre in Native Yoruba bridal attire😍 and her weddibg dress
  • All the sauce Nonso was giving #noketchup
  • Negiotiang Diedre’s bride price with Harrison #hilarious
  • When Dunni’s mum broke into tears #touchedmyheart
  • Dunni’s mum fussing over her as usual features #hilarious
  • The proposals
  • Diedre’s father emphasis on their family title and link to royalty

I saw TWP2 at Genesis Cinema Warri, Delta State Nigeria at N2000 for a ticket with a complementary popcorn and drink all thanks to the best sister in the world allowing me tag along because I couldn’t miss watching this hilarious movie for anything.

That is all for my review of The Wedding Party 2, yes I predict there will be another wedding party with a very different storyline and I would love to see that in 2018. I advice you see this movie with an open mind without prejudice you will enjoy it better, I have seen alot of negative reviews online and I just want to say admist all the negativity The Wedding Party 2 have raked over a 100 million naira in the first few weeks of premiering so I guess they did something worthwhile right? I mean I agree that I would’ve loved to see more on the couple’s love story before the wedding but let’s not forget it is a movie about Nigerian weddings not marriage or relationship so yeah I can understand why the attention is on the destination of the wedding and the wedding itself. Thats my take yours may be different.

Have you seen this #twp1 and #twp2 ? What do you think of this movie? Should there be a continuation ie. #twp3? Enjoy your Friday😚. Love D.A♥